Well educated but not confident. What to do for Building Self Confidence?
Hundreds of articles, books and websites are available on improving self confidence level. But I feel many people who studied those articles, books and websites still not confident or fail to build self confidence. I will tell you few tips to improve your self confidence level and I never studied these points in any self confidence building articles. I drive these tips from my personal and professional experiences. Building Self Confidence requires many aspects to cover but here I am writing the most important. I am sure after reading this complete article “Self Confidence” will not be a matter for you. Specially you will not forget this article once you read it.
Improving Self Esteem and Self Confidence is Not a Matter Now
Example from the History
Just think about the old times what the doctors were doing. They just looked at the face and told about all the problems in the person standing front of them. They don’t have the facility of today’s latest technology, labs and equipment’s. It was all about face reading. From this I want to tell you that your face tell everything about you, no matter whether it is inside the body or outside. Your confidence always measured from your face.
Here are some special points to improve your confidence level. Its all about how you can make your face good looking, happy and confident. If you have any fault inside and outside of your body believe me it will appear on your face and others will read it easily. To make your face confident consider following confidence building tips.
Self Confidence Building Exercises and Tips
Brush Your Teeth:
Before going to any place where you feel not confident you must brush your teeth. Even if you do not have need of this. You will feel happy to give a good smile otherwise you will feel shy. If you brush your teeth before any interview or any situations where you feel not confident your confidence level will increase up to 15% as compared to without brush.
Wear Newly Washed and Ironed Cloths:
You must wear washed and newly ironed cloths, no matter whether the cloths are new or old but they must be washed and ironed properly before going to any situation. If you have some cloths washed before two weeks and ironed before one week. Do not wear them for this kind of situation. This type of clothing will depress you and you will not feel fresh. Also plan your clothing as per situations, whether you need to wear simple shirt and pant, tie shirt and pant or pant coat. Try to wear better cloths which you feel nobody will be wearing in the certain situation. Your confidence level will increase up to 15% as compared to without washed and freshly ironed clothes.
Hair Style and Cutting:
Go to an outstanding hair saloon, where you feel the experts are available. Please guide the barber about your desire and get the perfect and good looking hair style. You can also get the advice from the expert about you hair style. Many hair styling gels and creams are also available you can use them easily.
You must have fresh shave before shower and double your shave to make sure that it is perfect. If you will not be sure about your shave perfection, definitely you will lose confidence. In case you do not have shaved face than you must have proper cutting.
Clean Your Body:
This important point most of the writers will not tell you and I never read this in any article. Properly take a shower with soap and shampoo just before going to any situation. If possible use soap and shampoo two times or more than you regularly do. Try to make your body cleaner than ever before.
Make Under Shave Properly:
Make sure your under shave is OK, and never compromise on this. If your under shave is not properly done you will lose your confidence up to 30%. You can experiment it suppose if your shave is not properly done, just do it, and feel the difference. This will change your face expressions and makes you confident.
Use New Under Garments:
Most of the time people wearing old undergarments do not have a happy face. Make sure your undergarments are not older than their life if you want a happy face. Also make sure that all under garments you are wearing are neat and clean as your cloths. Try to use new garments in special situations. If you are wearing new undergarments your confidence level will improve up to 10%.
What to Do With Your Shoes?
Always try to have special shoes that suites your personality for the special events and do not wear them any where else. Make sure they are properly polished and cleaned and having their perfect look. Believe me if your shoes will be older and not polished properly you will lose your confidence. No matter somebody is looking at your shoes or not but your face will tell the others about your shoes as well.
Do cut your nails properly on the day or before the day you are going to present yourself. If you have your nails already in proper form. Just make sure their perfection. Otherwise you will not be able to show the gestures and postures easily of your body. Ultimately you will lose your confidence.
If you have a good perfume only then use it otherwise avoid it and search for a good one. You should use body spray and perfumes separately. Make sure your body smell is attractive otherwise person around you will avoid you.
How Confident People Get Their Confidence?
This is the reality that all confident people are habitual from all above mentioned points. That is why they always looks confident. If you want to realize this just meet a confident person and check all above mentioned points on his/her body. Than you will accept me as a master of confidence improvement.
What to do with your language?
Prefer your national language and be smart. No matter what the language you speak but you should be proud of that language. Express your feelings in the language you feel easy, no matter what will be the audience says to you. Smartly try to use sentences and phrases from the desired language of the audience. If the audience can understand your language please do not confuse yourself if you can’t speak other language properly and this will be your strength. I know many people who do not speak English in their routine life but they try to speak English in certain situations like interviews. They lose the results and do not get jobs because they show their weakness and ultimately lose confidence answering certain questions in English.
What We Do in Routine Life?
Most of the time we do not consider all the above points and do not feel confident even after having many degrees in our hand and just blame others that they did not appreciate and didn’t selected you.
What to learn from this article?
If you have gone through this whole article you may feel that it is a full time job to perform all above points and you can’t do this. But if you start performing all that this will not take more than two hours. If two hours of your life can make you succeed, don’t waste them it is investment. After adopting all above points your face will look confident, satisfied and will show your passion to perform any task with 100% results and hide many of your faults. Exercise all above discussion and note the results you will find the difference. No matter whether you are going for an interview, speech or meeting you will not lose your confidence.
If you will be neat and clean everyone loves to get closer to you and love to hear you otherwise mostly people may avoid you. If you will be neat and clean your body and brain performance will be extraordinary. Also follow the above discussion on the marriage day. Just look the celebrities. Neat and clean body improves their performance and makes them more attractive and confident. So they are leading the world. All of them are not educated. But they are working on TV Channels.
Neat and clean body can hide hundreds of your faults and impress many around you. If you are quick it will not take much more time and simply make it your routine to ever stay confident.
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